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TALES OF THE FROWYKS

Most people who live in South Mimms and Ridge know where Frowyke Crescent is. How many people, though, know why it’s called by that name? Probably older folk know, especially those who have read Frederick Brittain’s “South Mymms, the Story of a Parish”, published in 1931. For those who don’t, read on!

The simplified spelling “Frowyk” is used here, because that is how it is spelt on the two Frowyk tombstones in St. Giles Church. These days it is normal to add an “e”. The family were the Mr. Bigs of South Mimms 800 years ago. There are several stories about them in Brittain)’s book, and also in another history by the Revd. Frederick Cass, written in 1877 (it’s heavy going as a read, much of it being in mediaeval Latin!). The pictures they paint of life in these parts in the Middle Ages makes “‘Orrible ‘Istories” seem tame by comparison.

The first tale is of a kidnapping. It has echoes of the Wild West in the 19th century. In 1308 Henry, the son of Reginald Frowyk, was staying up country in Hertfordshire at Furneaux Pelham. He was 14. He was forcibly carried away to be married to the daughter of an Essex gentleman called William de Pouns, who lived in Pleshey, 20 miles the other side of Bishops Stortford, towards Chelmsford. The other kidnappers included William’s son, Richard, a priest, and Thomas Lewknor, who owned Wyllyotts Manor (where Potters Bar station would be built 550 years later).

His mother, Agnes, petitioned Parliament for justice, and the kidnappers were imprisoned – but only for two years. They were released, possibly because young Henry actually liked his new bride, Margaret. Some 30 years later he is known to have collaborated with one Adam de Pouns in a business transaction. There is a tombstone outside the priest’s door to St. Giles belonging to someone called de Pouns (the first name is missing), which dates from around those times. These bare facts do not really do justice to the drama of the tale – it would be much better as a film, with lots of charging about on horses.

Reginald Frowk was a draper in the City of London. His grandfather, the first of many Thomas Frowyks, was a grocer, and having gained some wealth and a good marriage to an heiress from Surrey (near Reigate), chose to buy a country estate in what was then greater South Mimms. It is now Old Fold Golf Club. All the Frowyks were London merchants, some goldsmiths, some mercers (cloth dealers), and they gradually became part of the local gentry and nobility.

The next tale is about another Henry Frowyk. He was the grandson of the one who was kidnapped, and he died in 1386, some eight years after his grandfather. By now the family was well established as Lords of South Mimms, and his father (a Thomas) had married the daughter of the owner of what is now Dyrham Park, then known as Durhams, so the Frowyks now owned all the land north of Barnet.

Henry was a Justice of the Peace and Member of Parliament for Middlesex (South Mimms didn’t come into Hertfordshire until 1965), and he was also friendly with the Abbot of St. Albans. In 1381 Wat Tyler led the Peasant’ Revolt, and they threatened to burn down both St. Albans and Barnet. Henry Frowyk is said to have parleyed with the Peasants, and promised to mediate on their behalf with the Abbot of St. Albans. This gave time for the authorities to arrive with soldiers and put down the revolting Peasants. You can take this story two ways. Either Henry was an enemy of the proletariat in their class struggle against their overlords. Or you can consider that he preserved the built heritage of two famous market towns for posterity, and maintained strong and stable government.

Henry is buried before the altar in St. Giles Church, under a massive tombstone of Purbeck marble, with four Frowyk shields and a one-line inscription, asking for God’s mercy. His son, Thomas Frowyk who died in 1449, lived to at least 70, and his tombstone is now in the Frowyk chantry chapel. It was originally in the base of the tower and shows him, his wife (from Shenley) and their 19 (!) children. Thomas probably rebuilt the nave of the church, and also the original side chapel. He was also a friend of another Abbot of St. Albans, as well as being Justice of the Peace and MP for Middlesex. On his grave is a tribute from the Abbot, describing him as a country squire, who liked hunting foxes and badgers. The Animal Rights Group would have had a field day with him! He is also said to have kept the peace between his neighbours. Given those troubled times, he must have had his work cut out.

To put all this in context, between the first two Henrys mentioned came the Black Death (1348) which wiped out huge numbers of people – though the Frowyks themselves seem all to have lived long lives. While Thomas was out hunting foxes, King Henry V was busy defeating the French at Agincourt in 1415, and shortly after his death in 1449 the Wars of the Roses started (1455), including the Battle of Barnet (1471). Exciting times in which to live – or die!
William Marsterson

FATHERS DAY JUNE 18TH 2017
Sunday 18th June 9:15 at St. Margaret’s.
11:00 at St Giles

Later this month, we shall be celebrating Fathers’ Day. Now as a child I can remember Mothers’ Day, making cards at school, picking flowers from the garden, but I have no recollection of Fathers’ Day. So either I’ve got a very poor memory or it’s a more recent addition to our calendars. Time to check this out on Google, I thought. Which I did, and thankfully there’s nothing wrong with my memory (well not a lot).

Fathers’ Day or Men’s Day has been recognised in the more Catholic parts of Europe and Latin America since the Middle ages, and they celebrate their day in March. Fathers’ Day as we know it has been slowly gaining popularity only in the last one hundred years. The suggestion of a special day for Fathers originated from a lady in America. Her mother had tragically died, leaving her Father to bring up her and her six brothers and sisters. As she grew older she thought it very unfair that special days were set aside for mothers and nothing for fathers. She felt so strongly about this that with the help of her local YMCA and parish churches she campaigned to have a special day for Dads. The idea was welcomed and gradually spread throughout America, certainly helped by the Greeting Card and Florists organisations, so much so, that in 1966 the President of the USA decreed that the third Sunday of June be known as Fathers’ Day. Once it was official it was soon recognised on this side of the Atlantic and now it’s become part of our culture.

Here at St. Giles & St Margaret’s we also want to make the day special. So we are going to have a special Fathers’ Day service. So Mums—if you want to make his day a little different or you are worried about the children making Dad’s breakfast then come along and enjoy breakfast with us. We would love to be able to offer Dad a full English fry up but we haven’t got those facilities, but on Sunday June 18th we are offering:
at the 9:15 service croissants—toast—cereals and tea or coffee
at the 11:00 service Danish pastries and tea or coffee
so I reckon Dad will be happy. The theme of the service, which will be quite light hearted, will relate to how much we value our Dads, past and present. There’s also a surprise gift for Dads – not flowers I promise! So why not join us?
Doug Ryan